Archive for August, 2009

Designing a One-Month card

This Monday marks Joella’s first full month on earth. I can’t believe it’s been thirty-one days since the delivery at the hospital.

Those were fun days. No, not because I get to sleep in a patient bed. Those beds were so darn narrow I thought I would’ve fallen flat on the floor if I moved my fat ass even an inch off. No, those weren’t fun.

What really were was the fact that many people dropped by to say hi and pay our new family a visit. Most also gave positive wishes and hopes for our future (see the First Wishes video series on Joella’s website). We really appreciated all of them, especially those who took an extra effort to come to the hospital, which was relatively located far on the edge away of the city.

My in-laws wanted to send out greeting cards and novelty gifts to these fine folks as a small token of appreciation, which I completely thought was well-deserved. Of course, geeky dad here gets a part to play with, too! Instead of buying generic, we decided to make a custom card and print them as glossy photographs.

So upstairs I went and selected a few shots from Aperture. I had nearly 1,000 baby-related photos by now, so it wasn’t very difficult. Priscila’s initial idea was to have a photo collage of several shots in the card.

This is one of those requests where I admittingly miss my old Windows-based PC. Back then I used Picasa for photo management, and it was really easy to create collages. Of course, recently Picasa was also made available for the Mac, but I’ve gotten used to a new workflow in Aperture (iPhoto just doesn’t cut it) that I couldn’t be bothered switching back. Not to mention the iPod sync.

By Googling, I found and downloaded Shape Collage. This is a great product and its free version was good enough for what we needed. I played around with it and made a heart-shaped collage, which Priscila really liked. A bit of customization later, my first draft (DRAFT1) was produced.

Which.. didn’t turn out very well. The collage had 50 pictures, so Joella was hardly recognizable in ANY of them.

My second draft took care of that. Instead of having the collage as the main object, it served as the background and filled the whole card (all hundreds of photos!). Yes, nobody could recognize anything, but that’s beside the point. A few shots of cute Joella became the focal attraction, and I hand-painted the words “Joella’s 1st Year Month” into it using a thick brush, with the painted area ‘revealing’ the collage behind.

The idea really looked awesome in my head a few minutes before. But, would you believe, given form it turned out really ugly and amaterish. Like someone spitted on a canvas and used a leg to write on it. Thus, DRAFT2 was thrown down the can as well.

So I threw away the hand paint and found a really elegant font in Zapfino. After the change and a bit styling, things seemed to click and gave me a good feeling. It looked sophisticated, clean, and sat well side-by-side with the pictures next to it. DRAFT3 was my eureka moment of the day.

Some details were then added, and you know you’re a geek when you just instinctively typed down a website URL before the actual names of people. Anyway, we printed out several copies of FINAL, ready for distribution on Monday.

If you happen to get one of these in the mail, please know that we love you so much, and these cards were created with my most sincere gratitude. That, and also the hope that you wouldn’t throw them away the first minute you get it! :)

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Babies in the church

Before I became a dad, i had this issue with loud babies and kids right in the middle of a church service.

 I thought it was the most annoying thing ever in that kind of environment, closely beating the ringing cellphone in second place and unsynchronized multimedia song support in third. I wasn’t having double-standards, I hated myself whenever I happened to be responsible of any of them.

 But again, little Joella made me break my arrogant attitudes, one little thing at a time.

 I always strive to keep my baby girl quiet and, whenever possible, asleep in Sunday services. But at those times she decided it would be a good thing to just wake up and make some noise, it became quite a humbling experience, at least in my own head. How we scramble to try calming her down with whatever we have on hand, and sometimes even still failing, that we had to take her out of the main service room.

 I thank God for still letting me grow and increase my capacity to understand myself and love those around me.

 One down. Now if only I could get rid of the other two..

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Pro’s and con’s of life

Here’s what it was like before:

 Pro’s of life: Cool gear to play with, awesome movies every month, the app store, good places to eat around this city

 Con’s: Freakin traffic jams, bureacracies and gratification-seeking civil officials, my wife’s asking too many things, cost of living

 Now as of 31st July onwards, here they are:

 Pro’s: Cute baby, smiling baby, playful baby
Con’s: Crying-on-2-am baby, hungry baby, generally-hard-to-guess baby

 … And still, the cost of living!

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Unfair advantage, or not?

Long before Joella was born, my wife and I discussed family plans and all those stuff that didn't even cross your mind before you got married. One of them was that if we were going to have a baby, how would we split up parental chores? Especially in those early months, where we simply had to adapt to the kid's needs.

Then she expressed her desire to become a full-time mom, to quit whatever work she's going be in. She wants full attention to go the the baby, for an indefinite amount of time. First thing I thought to myself was, "Ouch, that's gonna hurt!" How do you cut the family income in two, flush a piece down the can, while at the same time adding the feeding head count by fifty percent? That's gotta be one of the worst life equations ever.

But after much thought, I realized that was a very selfless pledge for her part to make. She's committing to take charge of all baby-related duties, from changing diapers to midnight wake up calls. That's a really noble reason to live, coming from a guy who has no hopes of going down that road.

So here we are, couple of weeks into Joella's life. While I get to spend most of my time with the baby playing and cuddling when she's fed and happy, I know for a fact that Priscila's the real hero in this battle, she's the one who responds to most untimely cries and goes miles to make sure Joella's life on earth starts well.

Thank God for my wife.

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Joella’s dad gets a kiss!

I love this picture.

 Not for its quality, which pretty much shows how bad the iPhone 3G’s cam app is. Zoom and subject placement also were nothing impressive.

 But I’ve really wanted for my daughter to give me a kiss as early as possible. And though she didn’t do it on purpose, and I have no idea why a nose would be a good spot, but this picture captured that special moment.

 I love my daughter so much..

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